Episode 067: Goodbye, for now.

1:00 Parent Driven Development reflects on what it’s like being a panelist on the podcast

• Imposter syndrome
• Multiple purposes to be an effective parent
• Expanding perspectives, ideas, and parenting techniques
• Ability to relate with one another

8:40 What we hope to our listeners take away from the podcast

• There is no one way to parent
• You’ll continue to grow as a parent
• You are not alone - every parent, kid, family, circumstances are different

13:30 What would we have done differently?

• Earlier sponsorship
• Episode format

16:15 Parting words for listeners

• Thank you!!
• You’re doing a great job.

17:17 Final genius and fail moments

• Chris Sexton’s daughter uses the word arithmetic with her peers, but no one knows the word leading her to question whether her parents played a prank on her.
• Allison calms down her family with deep breathing after her daughter has a potty accident.
• KWu’s 3-year-old son feels super proud after helping shovel the snow, and he helped!
• Chris Arcand finds the perfect snow sled for his son to be towed around in the deep Minnesota snow.

How can I support the podcast?

Please follow us @parentdrivendev on Twitter or email us at panel@parentdrivendevelopment.com.

Our website is at ParentDrivenDevelopment.com.

Chris Arcand
Chris Sexton
KWu
Allison

1:48 Welcome, DHH

David is the creator of Ruby on Rails, cofounder & CTO at Basecamp, best-selling author, Le Mans class-winning racing driver, frequent podcast guest, and family man.

2:50 Security concerns

• Social Media
• COVID times
• Parenting boundaries

13:45 Privacy

• Picture surplus
• Authenticity

16:45 Engagement with parenting on the web

• The highlight parenting reel
• Avoid the humble brag as a parent
• Internet jousts

DHH recommended books:

• The Myth of the Spoiled Child - Alfie Kohn
• Punished by Rewards - Alfie Kohn * The Self-Driven Child - Ned Johnson

26:30 Introducing privileges to his kids

• Capitalism
• Against artificial constraints placed on by parents
• A life not centered around materialism

The Road To Wigan Pier - George Orwell

38:38 Genius / Fails

• Arit makes a crib boundary with a creative new upcycle
• KWu wrestles with a photo book for her kids
• Chris fails on fail this week
• DHH is off by an hour as his kids come home right as this podcast starts
• Allison’s daughter challenges her patience during bed time

How can I support the podcast?

Please follow us @parentdrivendev on Twitter or email us at panel@parentdrivendevelopment.com.

Our website is at ParentDrivenDevelopment.com.

Allison
Chris S
Arit
KWu

Special Guest: David Heinemeier Hansson .

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