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Between staying up to date with emerging technologies and balancing work and home life in an industry that often requires un-timeable bug fixes, on call schedules, and more, working parents are balancing a lot.
Parents are also exploring additional technical issues like "screen time" or internet privacy, coming at these issues from a different perspective as technologists ourselves.
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Parents are also exploring additional technical issues like "screen time" or internet privacy, coming at these issues from a different perspective as technologists ourselves.
We cover all of these topics and more using a panel of parents coming from diverse perspectives and a variety of technological backgrounds. We'll shine light onto these issues and provide a valuable food for thought for these folks.
Want to ask a question that the panelists can discuss in an episode? Email us at panel@parentdrivendevelopment.com.
And if you're loving the podcast and want to support us, please visit our Patreon (https://www.patreon.com/parentdrivendev)! 
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  <title>029: Organizing Conferences</title>
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&lt;h2&gt;Episode 029: Organizing Conferences&lt;/h2&gt;

&lt;h3&gt;00:57 Balancing Conferencing with Parenting&lt;/h3&gt;

&lt;ul&gt;
&lt;li&gt;Andy has organized &lt;a href="https://www.reddotrubyconf.com/" target="_blank" rel="nofollow noopener"&gt;RedDotRubyConf&lt;/a&gt;, still organizes &lt;a href="https://brightonruby.com/" target="_blank" rel="nofollow noopener"&gt;Brighton Ruby&lt;/a&gt;, and has spoken the past few years at &lt;a href="https://rubyconf.org/" target="_blank" rel="nofollow noopener"&gt;RubyConf&lt;/a&gt;.&lt;/li&gt;
&lt;li&gt;Andy also puts out an email newsletter, with one Ruby/Rails technique delivered with a ‘why?’ and a ‘how?’ every two weeks. It’s deliberately brief, focussed &amp;amp; opinionated, and called &lt;a href="https://onerubything.com/" target="_blank" rel="nofollow noopener"&gt;One Ruby Thing&lt;/a&gt;.&lt;/li&gt;
&lt;li&gt;Chris helps to co-organize &lt;a href="https://rubyforgood.org/" target="_blank" rel="nofollow noopener"&gt;Ruby For Good&lt;/a&gt;.

&lt;ul&gt;
&lt;li&gt;Systems, systems, systems. &lt;/li&gt;
&lt;li&gt;Staying in the speaker hotel during crunch time. &lt;/li&gt;
&lt;li&gt;Getting paid helps.&lt;/li&gt;
&lt;li&gt;Having no co-organizers = no extra communication challenges.&lt;/li&gt;
&lt;li&gt;Relying on your partner.&lt;/li&gt;
&lt;li&gt;Staying local helps.&lt;/li&gt;
&lt;li&gt;Having a venue.&lt;/li&gt;
&lt;/ul&gt;
&lt;/li&gt;
&lt;/ul&gt;

&lt;h3&gt;06:52 Conference Sizes: How Big is Big?&lt;/h3&gt;

&lt;ul&gt;
&lt;li&gt;Andy runs Brighton Ruby as a single track, one-day conference of 300-400.&lt;/li&gt;
&lt;li&gt;
&lt;a href="http://rubycentral.org/" target="_blank" rel="nofollow noopener"&gt;Ruby Central&lt;/a&gt; conferences by comparison are up to about 1,000 attendees and multi-track over 3-4 days.&lt;/li&gt;
&lt;li&gt;Ruby For Good is about 80 people, but has less of a conference feel because it's groups of people hacking on different projects over a few days.&lt;/li&gt;
&lt;/ul&gt;

&lt;h3&gt;09:46 Classifying These Gatherings as "Work-Adjacent Hobbies"&lt;/h3&gt;

&lt;ul&gt;
&lt;li&gt;Benefits the career.&lt;/li&gt;
&lt;li&gt;Meeting, networking, and making friends.&lt;/li&gt;
&lt;li&gt;Feel-good factor.&lt;/li&gt;
&lt;li&gt;Prioritization.&lt;/li&gt;
&lt;li&gt;Time frees up as kids have gotten older. &lt;/li&gt;
&lt;/ul&gt;

&lt;h3&gt;19:30 Family Involvement&lt;/h3&gt;

&lt;ul&gt;
&lt;li&gt;Kids on stage are cute.&lt;/li&gt;
&lt;li&gt;Teenagers can help volunteer!&lt;/li&gt;
&lt;li&gt;Osmosis of exposure. This is what mom/dad does!&lt;/li&gt;
&lt;li&gt;Showing that work does not necessarily equal drudgery.&lt;/li&gt;
&lt;/ul&gt;

&lt;h3&gt;22:30 Behind-The-Scenes Tradeoffs&lt;/h3&gt;

&lt;ul&gt;
&lt;li&gt;The best track at any conference is the speaker track.

&lt;ul&gt;
&lt;li&gt;Coaching, mentoring, and cheering on first-time speakers.&lt;/li&gt;
&lt;/ul&gt;
&lt;/li&gt;
&lt;li&gt;Repetition of putting on conferences over the years = it gets easier, more fun, and less stressful.

&lt;ul&gt;
&lt;li&gt;&lt;a href="https://www.amazon.com/gp/product/0735211299/ref=as_li_qf_asin_il_tl?ie=UTF8&amp;amp;tag=therubyrep-20&amp;amp;creative=9325&amp;amp;linkCode=as2&amp;amp;creativeASIN=0735211299&amp;amp;linkId=a6154fb4886e2b76620e69e1d1f699a2" target="_blank" rel="nofollow noopener"&gt;Atomic Habits&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/li&gt;
&lt;/ul&gt;
&lt;/li&gt;
&lt;/ul&gt;

&lt;h3&gt;28:21 Meal Kits and Meal Planning Conversation&lt;/h3&gt;

&lt;ul&gt;
&lt;li&gt;We all have tried them. We all have opinions. We are definitely open for sponsorship. Email us! 👇🏻&lt;/li&gt;
&lt;/ul&gt;

&lt;h3&gt;32:36  Getting Involved in Conferences (for those who are brave enough)&lt;/h3&gt;

&lt;ul&gt;
&lt;li&gt;Speak.&lt;/li&gt;
&lt;li&gt;Volunteer.&lt;/li&gt;
&lt;li&gt;Conference Scholar/Guide Programs. i.e. &lt;a href="http://rubycentral.org/community#scholarship" target="_blank" rel="nofollow noopener"&gt;Ruby Central's&lt;/a&gt;
&lt;/li&gt;
&lt;li&gt;Community Meetups&lt;/li&gt;
&lt;/ul&gt;

&lt;h3&gt;37:46 Genius / Fail Moments&lt;/h3&gt;

&lt;ul&gt;
&lt;li&gt;Andy's kids learning empathy from movies. (#Genius)&lt;/li&gt;
&lt;li&gt;Chris forgot to pack his son's main lunch entreé and left it in the microwave! (#Fail)&lt;/li&gt;
&lt;li&gt;Josh's daughter revealing she has a video clip of the two of them from when she was very little and being fond of watching it often. (Genius)&lt;/li&gt;
&lt;li&gt;KWu's son fell and hit his head 🤕. (#Fail)&lt;/li&gt;
&lt;/ul&gt;

&lt;h3&gt;Follow &amp;amp; Support&lt;/h3&gt;

&lt;p&gt;Please follow us &lt;a href="https://twitter.com/parentdrivendev" target="_blank" rel="nofollow noopener"&gt;@parentdrivendev&lt;/a&gt; on Twitter or email us at &lt;a href="mailto:panel@parentdrivendevelopment.com" target="_blank" rel="nofollow noopener"&gt;panel@parentdrivendevelopment.com&lt;/a&gt;. &lt;/p&gt;

&lt;p&gt;Our website is at &lt;a href="https://parentdrivendevelopment.com" target="_blank" rel="nofollow noopener"&gt;ParentDrivenDevelopment.com&lt;/a&gt;.&lt;/p&gt;

&lt;p&gt;&lt;a href="https://www.patreon.com/parentdrivendev" target="_blank" rel="nofollow noopener"&gt;Support us via Patreon&lt;/a&gt; and get access to our our Slack Community.&lt;/p&gt;

&lt;h3&gt;Panel&lt;/h3&gt;

&lt;p&gt;&lt;a href="https://twitter.com/crsexton" target="_blank" rel="nofollow noopener"&gt;Chris Sexton&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br&gt;
&lt;a href="https://twitter.com/kwugirl" target="_blank" rel="nofollow noopener"&gt;KWu&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br&gt;
&lt;a href="https://twitter.com/joshpuetz" target="_blank" rel="nofollow noopener"&gt;Josh Puetz&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br&gt;
&lt;a href="https://twitter.com/andycroll" target="_blank" rel="nofollow noopener"&gt;Andy Croll&lt;/a&gt; &lt;/p&gt;
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    <![CDATA[<h1>Parent Driven Development</h1>

<h2>Episode 029: Organizing Conferences</h2>

<h3>00:57 Balancing Conferencing with Parenting</h3>

<ul>
<li>Andy has organized <a href="https://www.reddotrubyconf.com/" rel="nofollow">RedDotRubyConf</a>, still organizes <a href="https://brightonruby.com/" rel="nofollow">Brighton Ruby</a>, and has spoken the past few years at <a href="https://rubyconf.org/" rel="nofollow">RubyConf</a>.</li>
<li>Andy also puts out an email newsletter, with one Ruby/Rails technique delivered with a ‘why?’ and a ‘how?’ every two weeks. It’s deliberately brief, focussed &amp; opinionated, and called <a href="https://onerubything.com/" rel="nofollow">One Ruby Thing</a>.</li>
<li>Chris helps to co-organize <a href="https://rubyforgood.org/" rel="nofollow">Ruby For Good</a>.

<ul>
<li>Systems, systems, systems. </li>
<li>Staying in the speaker hotel during crunch time. </li>
<li>Getting paid helps.</li>
<li>Having no co-organizers = no extra communication challenges.</li>
<li>Relying on your partner.</li>
<li>Staying local helps.</li>
<li>Having a venue.</li>
</ul></li>
</ul>

<h3>06:52 Conference Sizes: How Big is Big?</h3>

<ul>
<li>Andy runs Brighton Ruby as a single track, one-day conference of 300-400.</li>
<li><a href="http://rubycentral.org/" rel="nofollow">Ruby Central</a> conferences by comparison are up to about 1,000 attendees and multi-track over 3-4 days.</li>
<li>Ruby For Good is about 80 people, but has less of a conference feel because it&#39;s groups of people hacking on different projects over a few days.</li>
</ul>

<h3>09:46 Classifying These Gatherings as &quot;Work-Adjacent Hobbies&quot;</h3>

<ul>
<li>Benefits the career.</li>
<li>Meeting, networking, and making friends.</li>
<li>Feel-good factor.</li>
<li>Prioritization.</li>
<li>Time frees up as kids have gotten older. </li>
</ul>

<h3>19:30 Family Involvement</h3>

<ul>
<li>Kids on stage are cute.</li>
<li>Teenagers can help volunteer!</li>
<li>Osmosis of exposure. This is what mom/dad does!</li>
<li>Showing that work does not necessarily equal drudgery.</li>
</ul>

<h3>22:30 Behind-The-Scenes Tradeoffs</h3>

<ul>
<li>The best track at any conference is the speaker track.

<ul>
<li>Coaching, mentoring, and cheering on first-time speakers.</li>
</ul></li>
<li>Repetition of putting on conferences over the years = it gets easier, more fun, and less stressful.

<ul>
<li><a href="https://www.amazon.com/gp/product/0735211299/ref=as_li_qf_asin_il_tl?ie=UTF8&tag=therubyrep-20&creative=9325&linkCode=as2&creativeASIN=0735211299&linkId=a6154fb4886e2b76620e69e1d1f699a2" rel="nofollow">Atomic Habits</a></li>
</ul></li>
</ul>

<h3>28:21 Meal Kits and Meal Planning Conversation</h3>

<ul>
<li>We all have tried them. We all have opinions. We are definitely open for sponsorship. Email us! 👇🏻</li>
</ul>

<h3>32:36  Getting Involved in Conferences (for those who are brave enough)</h3>

<ul>
<li>Speak.</li>
<li>Volunteer.</li>
<li>Conference Scholar/Guide Programs. i.e. <a href="http://rubycentral.org/community#scholarship" rel="nofollow">Ruby Central&#39;s</a></li>
<li>Community Meetups</li>
</ul>

<h3>37:46 Genius / Fail Moments</h3>

<ul>
<li>Andy&#39;s kids learning empathy from movies. (#Genius)</li>
<li>Chris forgot to pack his son&#39;s main lunch entreé and left it in the microwave! (#Fail)</li>
<li>Josh&#39;s daughter revealing she has a video clip of the two of them from when she was very little and being fond of watching it often. (Genius)</li>
<li>KWu&#39;s son fell and hit his head 🤕. (#Fail)</li>
</ul>

<h3>Follow &amp; Support</h3>

<p>Please follow us <a href="https://twitter.com/parentdrivendev" rel="nofollow">@parentdrivendev</a> on Twitter or email us at <a href="mailto:panel@parentdrivendevelopment.com" rel="nofollow">panel@parentdrivendevelopment.com</a>. </p>

<p>Our website is at <a href="https://parentdrivendevelopment.com" rel="nofollow">ParentDrivenDevelopment.com</a>.</p>

<p><a href="https://www.patreon.com/parentdrivendev" rel="nofollow">Support us via Patreon</a> and get access to our our Slack Community.</p>

<h3>Panel</h3>

<p><a href="https://twitter.com/crsexton" rel="nofollow">Chris Sexton</a><br>
<a href="https://twitter.com/kwugirl" rel="nofollow">KWu</a><br>
<a href="https://twitter.com/joshpuetz" rel="nofollow">Josh Puetz</a><br>
<a href="https://twitter.com/andycroll" rel="nofollow">Andy Croll</a></p>]]>
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    <![CDATA[<h1>Parent Driven Development</h1>

<h2>Episode 029: Organizing Conferences</h2>

<h3>00:57 Balancing Conferencing with Parenting</h3>

<ul>
<li>Andy has organized <a href="https://www.reddotrubyconf.com/" rel="nofollow">RedDotRubyConf</a>, still organizes <a href="https://brightonruby.com/" rel="nofollow">Brighton Ruby</a>, and has spoken the past few years at <a href="https://rubyconf.org/" rel="nofollow">RubyConf</a>.</li>
<li>Andy also puts out an email newsletter, with one Ruby/Rails technique delivered with a ‘why?’ and a ‘how?’ every two weeks. It’s deliberately brief, focussed &amp; opinionated, and called <a href="https://onerubything.com/" rel="nofollow">One Ruby Thing</a>.</li>
<li>Chris helps to co-organize <a href="https://rubyforgood.org/" rel="nofollow">Ruby For Good</a>.

<ul>
<li>Systems, systems, systems. </li>
<li>Staying in the speaker hotel during crunch time. </li>
<li>Getting paid helps.</li>
<li>Having no co-organizers = no extra communication challenges.</li>
<li>Relying on your partner.</li>
<li>Staying local helps.</li>
<li>Having a venue.</li>
</ul></li>
</ul>

<h3>06:52 Conference Sizes: How Big is Big?</h3>

<ul>
<li>Andy runs Brighton Ruby as a single track, one-day conference of 300-400.</li>
<li><a href="http://rubycentral.org/" rel="nofollow">Ruby Central</a> conferences by comparison are up to about 1,000 attendees and multi-track over 3-4 days.</li>
<li>Ruby For Good is about 80 people, but has less of a conference feel because it&#39;s groups of people hacking on different projects over a few days.</li>
</ul>

<h3>09:46 Classifying These Gatherings as &quot;Work-Adjacent Hobbies&quot;</h3>

<ul>
<li>Benefits the career.</li>
<li>Meeting, networking, and making friends.</li>
<li>Feel-good factor.</li>
<li>Prioritization.</li>
<li>Time frees up as kids have gotten older. </li>
</ul>

<h3>19:30 Family Involvement</h3>

<ul>
<li>Kids on stage are cute.</li>
<li>Teenagers can help volunteer!</li>
<li>Osmosis of exposure. This is what mom/dad does!</li>
<li>Showing that work does not necessarily equal drudgery.</li>
</ul>

<h3>22:30 Behind-The-Scenes Tradeoffs</h3>

<ul>
<li>The best track at any conference is the speaker track.

<ul>
<li>Coaching, mentoring, and cheering on first-time speakers.</li>
</ul></li>
<li>Repetition of putting on conferences over the years = it gets easier, more fun, and less stressful.

<ul>
<li><a href="https://www.amazon.com/gp/product/0735211299/ref=as_li_qf_asin_il_tl?ie=UTF8&tag=therubyrep-20&creative=9325&linkCode=as2&creativeASIN=0735211299&linkId=a6154fb4886e2b76620e69e1d1f699a2" rel="nofollow">Atomic Habits</a></li>
</ul></li>
</ul>

<h3>28:21 Meal Kits and Meal Planning Conversation</h3>

<ul>
<li>We all have tried them. We all have opinions. We are definitely open for sponsorship. Email us! 👇🏻</li>
</ul>

<h3>32:36  Getting Involved in Conferences (for those who are brave enough)</h3>

<ul>
<li>Speak.</li>
<li>Volunteer.</li>
<li>Conference Scholar/Guide Programs. i.e. <a href="http://rubycentral.org/community#scholarship" rel="nofollow">Ruby Central&#39;s</a></li>
<li>Community Meetups</li>
</ul>

<h3>37:46 Genius / Fail Moments</h3>

<ul>
<li>Andy&#39;s kids learning empathy from movies. (#Genius)</li>
<li>Chris forgot to pack his son&#39;s main lunch entreé and left it in the microwave! (#Fail)</li>
<li>Josh&#39;s daughter revealing she has a video clip of the two of them from when she was very little and being fond of watching it often. (Genius)</li>
<li>KWu&#39;s son fell and hit his head 🤕. (#Fail)</li>
</ul>

<h3>Follow &amp; Support</h3>

<p>Please follow us <a href="https://twitter.com/parentdrivendev" rel="nofollow">@parentdrivendev</a> on Twitter or email us at <a href="mailto:panel@parentdrivendevelopment.com" rel="nofollow">panel@parentdrivendevelopment.com</a>. </p>

<p>Our website is at <a href="https://parentdrivendevelopment.com" rel="nofollow">ParentDrivenDevelopment.com</a>.</p>

<p><a href="https://www.patreon.com/parentdrivendev" rel="nofollow">Support us via Patreon</a> and get access to our our Slack Community.</p>

<h3>Panel</h3>

<p><a href="https://twitter.com/crsexton" rel="nofollow">Chris Sexton</a><br>
<a href="https://twitter.com/kwugirl" rel="nofollow">KWu</a><br>
<a href="https://twitter.com/joshpuetz" rel="nofollow">Josh Puetz</a><br>
<a href="https://twitter.com/andycroll" rel="nofollow">Andy Croll</a></p>]]>
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